Week O' Death

This past week has been busy, busy, busy. Last week was busier, busier, busier. I got to Friday last week, and thought I was going to pass out. Then came Saturday, and I almost did. :) Let me tell you about my week last week, since I haven't put up any posts with writing for quite a long time. (Of course, this really is only for my benefit, since there are only 2 of you who ever read my blog...according to my comments sections...)

We'll start off with Sunday, the 15th of November. We had our primary program that day. Hm. I think if I were ever in charge of doing a Primary Program again, I'd definitely do things differently--like maybe not involve anyone under the age of 6. We have 5 kids in our primary. Three of them are my own children. Two belong to another family (the Ndongo's). We started out the program so well--all of the children seated on their chairs facing everyone. Josh was super excited to do all his parts. By the time the sacrament had been passed, we lost Andrew. He went for a jog outside. Halfway through our program, Claire wandered off (after asking me, loudly, when it would be over and when it was time to go home). Josh took over their parts. (After yelling about how they weren't there and starting to yell their names and COUNT!! "ANDREW! GET BACK IN HERE RIGHT NOW!! ONE... TWO..." Yah. That was conducive to the spirit.) Oh well. We did eventually make it.

Monday (the 16th) I took the kids to 'Monday Club' and we all swam for 2 hours! Woohoo! Then I had to rush home to make dinner as we were having friends over. Hosting always takes it out of me... And I always know that when we have people over for dinner, the kids go to bed LATE. *sigh*

Tuesday (the 17th) I took the kids to playgroup. That's getting to be a pain in the neck, since Claire is really too old for it, so she wanders around asking me when we're going to leave so that she can have a snack and watch a movie. She asks me this every single 5 minutes (or less) for about 2 hours. It's slightly annoying. After playgroup, I ran the kids home, put Peter to bed, then went to parent-teacher conference. I think many parents dread the conference. I had always hoped to have stellar kids where the teacher would praise them to the moon and back. Oh well. We can't have it all, I suppose. Now don't get me wrong. Josh gets plenty of praise. He reads on a third/fourth grade level. He's way ahead in math and science and social studies. His comprehension is fantastic and he always is a great addition to any discussion. The problem (and it's not a little one) is his behavior. I don't know how I ended up with the class bully, but there it is. He HAS improved since last year. He doesn't hit as much. Actually, from what I hear, he doesn't hit at all anymore. That's GOOD. Now, he is a 'Javert'. He knows all the rules, and has no compassion for anyone breaking them. He lays into them. He yells at people if things don't go his way, or if someone says something that makes him feel threatened or upset. This I know, but I don't know how to go about fixing it. Guess I just have to keep showing him the right way to deal with issues....and maybe someday it will sink in? Any ideas?

Wednesday (the 18th) I took the kids to a friends' house to swim. (We also met with a tailor to have authentic Cameroonian outfits made!!) It is always nice to swim. Since we are now in the dry season, it is HOT and ULTRA sunny! I really enjoy swimming with the kids now, especially since Andrew and Claire use their floatie rings and swim all over all by themselves, and Peter LOVES to be in the pool--wish I had a floatie for him! But it's hard to stay in the pool for extended periods, as the heat and glare give ferocious headaches! Oh well. After our dip in the pool,

Thursday (the 19th) I actually took the kids to playgroup. I don't usually go on Thursdays as there aren't always very many moms there, and I get really bored sitting with all the nannies by myself and listening to Claire ask me when it's snack time and can she go home and watch a movie after? But I knew the mom would be there, so I went and it was fun!

Friday (the 20th) I did story time again. I have LOVED doing story time! I will certainly miss it. (I wonder if they have already made story times in the libraries in Finland? I will have to check it out...) We did a Christmas theme! And after the stories (I read 'Gingerbread Cowboy' in my 'Idaho Accent'), we cut out, baked, and decorated gingerbread men! I will eventually get around to posting that recipe... After story time, I picked up Devin from work, and we went over to Josh's class to read a story about Thanksgiving, make a turkey project, and somewhat celebrate Josh's birthday the next day. We then went home so I could prepare some dinner and get ready for our weekly movie night. That's another thing I'll miss and maybe we'll see if we can't continue it in Helsinki. I made some super yummy Chicken Enchiladas...and I need to post the recipe, too.

Saturday, we got up early, Devin and the kids went shopping for some food that we needed, then we had Josh's birthday party. It ended up being a sort of progressive party--we started here. The kids drew on the walls with sidewalk chalk (outside, of course), played on the swings, played 'Don't Eat Pete' using popcorn instead of candy (that was a BIG hit!!), and generally made a mess. Then, we walked them all over to a friends' house to use the pool. I made pizza dough and brought it over, and the kids each rolled out and 'decorated' their own pizza. So, the ate pizza and homemade mac and cheese, then we walked them all back over to our house for cake and present opening time. Then, we took a deep breath, and went to a farewell party that Devin's office had for him. Unfortunately, starting on Friday morning, Peter had a high fever. The kid was a little limp noodle. He barely moved, didn't say a word, and just sat like a little lump. It was SO sad! I put Peter down for a nap, left him in the care of the guard for a few minutes while I drove Devin and the kids over to the farewell party and dropped them off. I came back here and did some projects while Peter slept, then when he woke up, I went to the party for a few minutes until the Health Unit was opened and I could take him in to make sure he had nothing terrible in his system. I'm happy to report it was just a virus, and that he has no malaria or anything like unto that. Whew. By this time, it was time to go home and get ready for bed. Crash.

Sunday, I didn't do ANYTHING, and it was wonderful! (Well, I went to church...but I just played with the kids and did a Thanksgiving lesson.)

And we move on with our week.

This past Monday (the 23rd--which was my baby sister Celeste's birthday and she's 26) I had Pascaline and Meekness back, and I took great advantage of that. I spent 6 hours deep cleaning the bottom floor of the house. Whew. I also picked up my beautiful 'ensemble' from the tailor. I walked home in it, and the guard didn't recognize me! Ha! :)

Tuesday we hosted playgroup at our house. There were lots of kids and lots of nannies. With the few moms that were there, I chatted and we drank tea. Then I did some more rearranging of the house.

Wednesday, I took the kids to the Palais des Congres to ride bikes. Oh MY it was HOT! It was so energy sapping. By the time we finished and got home, and I had a raging headache from the sun. Blah. But, it sure is a helpful thing getting the kids to go to bed early! They've been exhausted lately! It's fantastic!

I should also mention that Devin and I have been burning the midnight oil doing rearranging and sorting. It's so exhilarating throwing out the excess stuff. Too much stuff. Wow. Hopefully, by the time the movers get here Monday morning, it will take them about an hour to pack up all our household goods! Ha! But seriously, it feels SO GOOD to shed the extra weight of all that stuff!